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" . . . but part of my problem is that my naturist friends are the most non-judgemental [sic] people I know and accept me for who I am, not how I look even if I am a little overweight."

I've noticed on several websites that champion the cause of "larger" people that they conveniently, yet dangerously (in my opinion) overlook the fact that there is a huge difference between a large-framed person who is healthy, and a large person who is morbidly obese. And no, Steve, I'm not suggesting that you are among the latter! But while it's true that we should not judge a person on the way they look, nor comment on their appearance or abnormalities beyond their control, I believe we are doing people a disservice if we didn't take note of their need to lose a bit of weight for the sake of their health and ability to live a happy life, and to offer encouragement. That's not being judgmental in a disparaging way - criticizing them for not having a Rocky Balboa body that conforms to the media hype of expectations. It's a concern for another person's wellbeing who may be struggling with body-fat issues who may just need a little advice and encouragement. Sadly, in our modern "woke" society, such concern is sadly misunderstood and unwelcome.

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Editor update: Steve and I have just been out for a beautiful morning walk in the sunshine at the Mount, our local, and climbed 214m! He would have added a comment on here but currently in recovery 😂🥰

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